New Trend: Men Taking Classes to Unlearn ‘Toxic Masculinity’

Because we know you’ll ask, no, this story doesn’t come to us from The Onion.

We find ourselves having to make that clarification increasingly as satire has become all the more difficult in the face of reality.

Enter multiple university campuses where ‘men’ are actually choosing to take courses like the ones offered at the U of Wisconsin, Duke and Brown called variously the Men’s Project or Masculinity 101 or Rethink Masculinity with the goal in mind of unteaching ‘toxic masculinity’ to work through social constructs and issues such as ’emotional labor, consent, violence, communication, empathy, and vulnerability’.

[dramatic pause while we vomit in our mouths]

But seriously, the problem with Western culture is a lack of real men, not a so-called over-masculinization.

Nevertheless, fear not, these ‘men’ won’t be reproducing, so the trend will naturally select its way out of existence.

Here’s more from The Cut…

For some time, Stephen Hicks had felt like something was off. “My relationship ended, then a lot of things started collapsing in front of me,” Hicks says. He began attending therapy, which made him realize that he needed to make a bigger change: “I wasn’t doing really terrible things, but I also wasn’t being the most ideal Stephen I could be,” he says. “The bar is really lowered for cisgender guys.”

So earlier this year, Hicks signed up for the pilot Rethink Masculinity class, a partnership between the Washington, D.C., Rape Crisis Center, Collective Action for Safe Spaces, and ReThink, an organization that works to prevent sexual assault.

The program bills itself as a class where men “learn how social constructs of masculinity harm them and the people around them, and work to construct healthier masculinities.” Or, as Hicks puts it, “It was eight weeks of guys discussing how they can address their actions with better self-awareness and less toxicity.”

“We spoke of emotional labor, consent, violence, communication, empathy, and vulnerability,” he adds, noting that the last subject, in particular, was a struggle for him: “[I was] trained and conditioned to be tough growing up.”

The Rethink program is the latest in a growing number of courses targeted toward people who identify as men, including the Men’s Project at the University of Wisconsin, Masculinity 101 at Brown, and the Duke Men’s Project at Duke. The goal, proponents say, is to help men examine their own biases and behaviors in order to cut down on misogyny and gender-based violence.

There’s no doubt that the problems these classes aim to tackle are pervasive ones — a reality that’s been made especially, painfully clear in recent days and weeks, as the Harvey Weinstein revelations have pushed discussions of sexual assault and harassment to the forefront. But can a class really be enough to chip away at something so deeply entrenched?

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